Why do people insist on creating 'unique' spellings for normal names?

And then they gripe about how people can't spell their names on Yahoo Answers! If your parents would have been kind enough to spell your name normal, then everyone else wouldn't be just as aggravated for having to figure out how to spell your name. If you want your child to have a unique name, then give him or her a unique name, not a screwed up spelling. Until then, don't complain when people misspell it b/c it's your parents fault, not the rest of society. Am I wrong?