After you had , if your man asked you this would you be mad?

my bf lied about having a cell phone. out of anger i said something about having company & told him not to come over. but i never had anyone over. 2 wks later we made up. I MADE IT CLEAR i wasnt with anyone. we had , but i used lubrication & i told him i did. the next day (on my birthday) he asks me if i had with someone else. he said i "felt different". and that my "energy wasnt the same". so if i felt SO DIFFERENT why did he continue to have & act like everything is ok?? it made me angry but i let it go. today i confronted him & asked how did he expect to carry a relationship & live together if we have trust issues? we dont each other. and i'm sick of his crap. the entire time we been together its ALWAYS SOMETHING. ALWAYS an argument, ALWAYS a QUESTION asked bcz he thinks i'm doing things behind his back. i hate the way he thinks & i feel like he's the main reason we had alot of arguments. he thinks its ME. he never looked for a job, STILL doesnt have a job, never helped me with the household, i did it all by myself. i'd be at work EVERY DAY. but he had nerve to suspect me of "doing things behind his back". he ran the streets to "get $$" & hardly helped & now he's in a damn rehab & lied to me about a cell phone?? and STILL questioning whether i was with another man?? i'm just sick of HIM. and i feel like i HATE him - even when i confront him it leads to an argument (too damn complicated to explain). i'm just SICK of him. would any of YOU feel mad if your man asked YOU that??