Woman paying alimony in divorce??

It happens from time to time. Women do it every day. I don't really see a man doing it as any different than a woman doing it, depending on if there's children and the reason they're divorcing. I've seen women have to pay out, but to be honest, alot of those times it was well-founded. Alot of men work their @$$es off only to have women occasionally marry them just for that reason, divorce them, and attempt to take it all. I'm female, just so you don't feel that this is biased. I just think it's a two way street, and everyone overuses it.