Family prob! pls help me?

You are not a home wrecker. Your dad is the one that obviously has a problem. I am sorry, I know he is your dad but I have no respect for him what so ever. How dare he put his screwed up marriages on your shoulders. How dare he put is own self before you! I would try very hard to not have discussions like that with your step mother. Her being married to your dad is her problem and between her and him. You have to stay out of it, that way he will have no reason to place the burden of his ridiculous behavoir on you. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT!! Now I m Mad!